i keep being bis*xual a secret from everyone i know except from my wife. told her years ago i had s*x with another man before her and i met and to my surprise it actually turned her on and supports it and its spices up our marriage. but when i do look most if not all are married men looking to do it secretly and including both men i was with in the bathhouse friday night. both of them told me their wives did not know. all except for my wifes boss that i have been with three times now she knows everything.