Male, 22
Friday, 15 January 2021

Okay, so I have been in a long term relationship for the last 6 and a half years. Recently my partner and I have been having some issues with our relationship and have been arguing a lot and also haven't been as s*xually attracted to one another as we used to be. A few months ago we had a really bad fight where she ended up storming out of the house, and while she was gone I had a brief s*xual encounter with my ex. We hooked up and it was great and I feel really bad that after that hookup me and my ex stopped talking again. A few weeks go by and then my partner of the last 6 years had suggested I find us a girl for a threesome. At first I thought about immediately messaging my ex, but since we had stopped talking after hooking up I felt like it would be rather awkward and kinda kept putting off finding us a girl. It's been roughly about a year since I hooked up with my ex and she has recently messaged me out of the blue. A casual hi, and asking how I'm doing, but that is originally how we had hooked up. Now, I'm strongly considering asking her to be a part of mine and my partners life as our "girlfriend" and allowing her into our s*x life. But i'm rather nervous that she would think I'm a pig and hate me. Should I just play my cards and shoot my shot?